Another Part of The Journal

"Yes, you must accept. I broke up with my GF 4 months ago after one year of being good GF,BF. TT
For the reason that I'm too stubborn and she is like that as well. We are like paralleling star, we understand each other very much, but we can't accept it. (I'm active, she's lazy, etc...) So now we're just god friend. "

My opinion: There are of course, many different opinion and perspective from each of you guys. However, I think I might agree on SK208 Why? Yes, when you're in a relationship at some point you must accept who they are even their bad points. However, if it's out of control, that's the cue to tell them the truth. If we really care about them, we need to help them fix their bad habits for themselves too not just for us. :3

1. Accept them who they are
2. Point out their mistakes kindly, so they can fix it by themselves.
3. Cover their faults (You fills in where they lacks on)
4. Help them/ teach them with their fault.

My opinion: I would like to chose all . XD First, of course I would accept them who they are, when I fell in love, I didn't even see there are any bad points at all I was happy like hell that I could spend my time with her <3 second, when in the middle of the road I found her bad points that's really concerning. I would totally tell her. Why? To let her know and let her reflects those by herself cus I believe no one knows how to help yourself than yourself. The second reason is that if she can fix her bad points, she'll can take care of herself when I'm not around.>.< On the process, I would help her and cover her fault for some time until it's not needed.
However, Minna-sama, some people can't take that comments. They'll think it as an insult and everything and that's why I asked the next question :3

"Not at all, it's good to know that she's honest. "

My opinion: I couldn't agree more with the 3 of you :3 You three already actually answer what I think it is. Well, it's good to know that your partner is honest with you rather than keep it inside until they finally explode to tiny bits (don't imagine it, really x.x) Of course like Anomonny points out, they'll totaly feel frustrated and guilty like hell, but if they truly care, they would get past it, accept it and try to change. That's what I thought, at least. (also like what color-sekai points out :3) Somehow, if they're not accepting it, it'll turns out to the next problem which is on the next question >w<

1. selfish
2. normal for being angry
3. can't accept them
4. not really in love so they can't accept the comment

My opinion:Again, you three read my mind O3O ... I agree it's normal for being angry but on the other hand, I also agree with color-sekai maybe they're getting worked up cus they're not really in love. So in the end, they took it as an insult or something far more worse. We're not a mindreader, except you there keep reading my mind x.x -shivers-

"I think it's good, as I said in number 3, telling truth of everything they feel they want to say is good thing. "

My opinion:Again, you three read my mind... Are you three really a mind reader ? D: Yes, I agree it's a good thing that you're actually worried with your partner. If not, then you're in trouble XD However, there are a thing we called 'too worry', because of that , our mind 'made up' a bad points of your partner which is actually not even exist. That's what prolly happen to most people and I could say it happened to me (I think) but in the end, it happened cus we worry too much of losing them. In my story, she's the best thing that ever happened in my life. I know at some point, she'll be gone and I'm totally afraid of that, afraid of losing her, afraid she can't take care of herself.. In the end, I realized I'm just a nobody, she is the best, she deserved to be with the best.