Don't think you're helpless!

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I've seen a lot of pics or statements about people at the internet saying they feel helpless and can't reach to their internet pals at the other side of the computer in such a manner that they think they can make them feel better when they're downmooded or feeling very sad. Something along like this picture: 25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5r…

To tell you something. I remember going moments like these, but what I know well is that supportive (and even better, very constructive and informal) words are the best you can do to help your friend when they are down. You can at least message to him/her.

Usually I try my best to help my friends when they're down or having problems: speaking with them and giving my own view on those things. And you know what? At times I succeed to make them feel better! (-l0l-)!
When they thank me (sometimes deeply even), I get this very warm and happy feeling and just feel like hugging myself... I think that's where I feel like those grateful feelings from my friend had reached to me... and surely I'll tell him/her about it. It keeps me happy for a whole day too. (-lvl-)

One day though, you people could take a next step if you're such a best friends (that is, if you're sure about it with your friends and made sure they won't turn out to be some creepos lurking at the net) and meet your net friend IRL. I did it already with one of my friends :iconnini-ni: and now we're sucha in close bond despite living so far away. Even one visit can do miracles!

So anyway, just telling you that you can do something to cheer your friend up! It really helps when you try to tackle the problem yourself and see if there's something you can tell to them that gives 'em a new light on it. It just takes bit of courage, but do your best, it really helps you bond with each other more despite living so far away!

/Can someone spread this journal on? Because I really think this would help people./
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Mugenloid's avatar
That was magical, I've got someone I need to meet too XD

Awesome that you made a new close bond with someone :3