Help Needed: Our Mom had major surgery

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----EDIT Apr. 03 2013---

Thank you so much for everyone helping us out, on behalf of me and my siblings,
we would like to thank all of you. :iconuhuhuhuplz::iconuhuhuhuplz::iconuhuhuhuplz:
Words can't express how much I wanna thank all of you guys...
Just like in the movies/telenovela/anime scene...but its happening in real life...
I had to raise 40K (1000$) on my own in order to pay the first half of Mom's
hospital bill so she can continue with the medicines....
And the hospital was like giving me only 1 night and half a day to do it...
No relatives to help me but I got my angel friends...God is still so good!
That time I said to myself
"I'll not go back in the hospital without the money, whatever happens"
Thank you so much for my Master who lended me some large amount of money and kept me company, to mamu jeanne and to dear real life true friends Soramio (who had to rush to the bank) cocojam who lend me money also and audiiyan arranging the paypal set up...
And to these lovely artists that donated shrimpHEBY and ran-yukino :iconnilanandita:
waaaaaaaah & to other artists I haven't thanked who took time to help us!
I will update you guys soon...Mom is getting better, I hope she
comes out ok on Wednesday this week hopefully...and the lab tests dont show cancer cells in her removed uterus...

I am just sad that some people who I knew for years are just disappointing...so many people had let me down already but it is still sad each time a friend I was hoping to be there during the bad times, leave me there and would re appear during good times...
Or when they need me they come and call/talk to me but when I need them they are nowhere to be found.
I swear to myself I will never be like them. Such people aren't worth the time.

*will update you soonest*

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To all my watchers, this is a quick ad. I know we all need money
but I hope some of you can take time to help us out if you can.
My sister AkaReikou,  opened Art Commissions not only for the additional funds we need but to have additional money to pay Mom's
surgery. Even my dear artist friend audiiyan, generously helped to raise money for mom thru her own art commissions. Also, ran-yukino would donate and do commissions to help us...
...Pls. see their commissions price list in here:
Working on:Traditional Art Commissions OpenEDIT:
My mom had major surgery last Friday...(pls see story here>>>http://fav.me/d5zxaaa)
and we need to raise funds so we will not fall short in paying the hospital bills
Money from Commissions are really needed. Pls spread the word thank you
For donations/monetary help and commission payments that will be done
paypal pls click this link

and confirm with audiiyan about your deposit
..I maybe late in the replies
but rest assured that she will be updating us. Our home is actually
one long ride away from her home but we live in the same city.

Rest assured that all of your commissions will be done soonest.
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Finally decided to open commissions. Really need to do this so we can have additional
funds for an upcoming event.
:thumb355358587: :thumb362750912:

For donations/monetary help that will be done thru paypal pls
contact audiiyan, and click this link

..I maybe late in the replies
but rest assured that she will be updating me. My home is actually
one long ride away from her home but we live in the same city.


I'm sorry that I couldn't do commissions too...I've got my hands full doing the
financial stuff and the paperworks while mom is in the hospital...and sadly, I feel
so disheartened to draw...:( I had experienced enough setbacks but then I'm
trying to keep it together...

What happened? Read On for the whole story:
""My mom had 2 major surgeries yesterday. She was diagnosed with
appendicitis last Friday and doctors said the only way was to have
it removed surgically. It was a private hospital, the fees were a lot
higher than the normal...I had thought of transferring mom to a
public hospital but when we got there, they can't accommodate  
my mom because the whole charity ward was full of patients already,
& the pay ward, the doctors said they don't want to operate mom
without the ultrasound report but since its a holiday no medtechs
mom will have to wait for 2-3 more days for the surgery.
There, me and my brother decided that we put her in the private
hospital. Never mind if it costs a lot & seemed unreasonable, if it
can save Mom's life, the bills will not matter...
She needed immediate surgery or else the appendicitis
might burst and the worst things may happen...
After performing the surgery in appendicitis, doctors found out that
her uterus were filled with cysts, she had severe myoma and her right
ovary was enlarged. They have to remove her whole uterus along with
her whole reproductive system. I signed the papers. She was operated
from 2AM-5:30AM...The whole time, my younger brother Iven-Rua-Faithless
was with me outside the operating room, praying to God that mom becomes
fine after the operation. If it weren't for him, I would probably been there
crying by myself. I wanted to cling to dear life & just had the flashbacks
of our happy time before this whole thing happened..We were happily laughing
at the TV show the day before and then suddenly this...Some pollyanna dream
that Mom only had UTI had crashed down on me...
My dad seemed to be afraid of the whole thing...
He was at home with my sis AkaReikou and came after the operation.

It was ironic. There, Mom always said that I need to be checked and cured from my  UTI (that became a bit severe) so I will not have kidney stones or lose my ability to have kids, or die because my kidneys malfunctioned, but then she never thought of her own safety. That she might have Myoma,and that might kill her too...

Thank God that mom survived the whole surgery & is now recuperating in the hospital.
We're still waiting for the lab test and we all hope the cysts/tumors in her uterus aren't
cancerous. As of now, we are all taking turns taking care of her in the hospital.
She needs various medicines and the bills to be settled are high. Though my family
is lucky that we had another house we can sell in order to get money, still, its a large
sum of money that we need. I don't want to fall short in paying the hospital bills.

I will not beg or plead, rather I hope I can touch your hearts even with this journal & my sister's artworks for me is worth the commission.

If you know any other financial/charitable institution that can help us with the funds here in the Philippines, pls send me details. I badly need I guess..donations or helping us
promote will do. Thank you..


During those dark times, I felt so loved. Thank you to all of my friends who prayed for mom and helped me, I am never alone...thank you
Special thanks:
audiiyan--for coming at the hospital, brought me mallows & books & cheering me up
such a true friend, she even had the plan of opening commissions just to help us..I don't know what to say...because I was a bit ashamed to ask for help about this..but thank you so much
Soramio,cocojam, phillydelphy though you guys aren't with me talking to all of you even thru text..thank you so much too...:devMiku-Rei: for talking to me at 3AM in the morning mai-kuu for the DA hug, & listening to me sky00reed for encouraging words
To these awesome & lovely artists that gave features though we barely knew them yet:
:iconkutty-sark::iconannerica138:
:iconran-yukino: even donating what she earns from her commissions just to help us.
:iconuhuhuplz::iconuhuhuplz::iconuhuhuplz::iconuhuhuplz::iconuhuhuplz::iconuhuhuplz::iconuhuhuplz::iconuhuhuplz:

and to all my other friends thank you.

I maybe on hiatus for a while...I'm keeping the faith and staying strong..though
I had so many sad things happening right now..Hoping for the best just send the comments & I'll try responding...
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Alice45665's avatar
OMG I'm so sorry you had to go through that >~< I hope your mom has a quick recovery! If only I had opened my deviant mail sooner!