A note about RolePlaying Requests...

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Dear fellow tickle-loving DA peeps,

Neko Emoji-16 (Blush) [V1] I am really soooo deeply flattered at all the many requests by people to role play. Yui (Very Happy Blush) [V1] I recognize that it takes guts to ask, and I definitely understand that for many in the TK community, it was hard enough admitting to oneself that we even had that fetish to begin with.Anime Emoji (Shy Stalker) 

All that said, I wanted to take a moment to make a few things clear due to their coming up more than once:





1.) Yes, I do RP. But only with people I've gotten to know and have established a bit of trust with.blush 

Okay...soooo say you were walking into a coffee shop and spied a girl that was sitting there in a "I Love 2B Tickled" t-shirt. You've never known her from anywhere before, so all you know is you both enjoy tickling. Do you suddenly walk up to her, grab her arm, hold it over her head and lick? :ew:

Yamato Flustered Icon  Of course not.:bademoticon: 


You'd introduce yourself first. You'd find out if she was willing....AFTER talking about a few other things first to discover if there was a level of comfort there.

The same is true with RP-ing.... Don't just send a note that launches into a scenario before introducing yourself and asking. That's the best way to be ignored because it's downright creepy.:talk_to_the_hand_bitch: 



2.) Just because I, or someone else, says "yes", doesn't mean that "anything goes". Gimme kiss 

For example, I'm constantly shocked by people who try and virtually "lick" me. If the girl that you barely know, that you just met in a coffee shop with the "I Love 2B Tickled" t-shirt had just agreed to allow herself to be tickled by you and the first thing you did was to lick her, you would probably get your face slapped. I'm not kidding.:dontpoke: 

Things like licking, kissing, :bademoticon: or touching any area that is covered by the swimwear of the western world should be considered off limits unless you've asked first and been given permission.

For me, when people don't ask and just launch into something like that, I just stop participating as it freaks me out.:scared: 



3.) Don't assume everyone into tickling shares the exact same interests.

There is admittedly a lot of crossover with the tickle-fetish world with other fetishes. I've seen people draw things that show they are into foot fetishes to vore to bondage to sadism to those who like to draw severed limbs and heads which laugh about fully alive as they are tickled....in other words, there is a lot of variety.

For example,  I hate being massaged in real life on any part of my body. It leaves me feeling "ick" down to my core. I feel the same about being licked. So when people want me to RP those things, it's impossible for me to imagine liking what I can't begin to imagine enjoying in real life. :yuck: 

Yamato Blushing Icon I also prefer to be the Submissive/Lee. Rabbito Blush 

A Game I Love To Lose... by TicklishAndInLove
While I am not adverse to tickling to spur a playful :bademoticon: tickle-fight on, the truth is I really get my kicks on being the one forced past my boundaries, tickled to desperation,
and then having my cries for mercy ignored as the tickling is made more intense still.  
Enju Wink Icon

 
Bondage is fine. Gags are not (as I've always found laughing much more indicative of desperation than a big rubber ball that causes one to drool). I'm definitely not into vore, and definitely not into pain or severed limbs.

Being able to openly say as much with someone before RP-ing makes me more comfortable and trusting of the Ler....and the more trust...the more fun is possible for both of us! :bademoticon:



4.) Please keep in mind the "medium" of the written word.Writer fella (Artists) 

When it comes to writing, one has three things to describe - scenario, thoughts and words. Gag a person and you are limited to two. Gag and fully restrain and you are limited to one. For one thing, how does one RP if all you can do is write "mmmmph!"...LOL! I once RP'd with someone who asked me not to write my thoughts out AND who wanted to RP with me gagged AND fully tied - I consider myself a creative person, but I couldn't think of a single thing to write after that! Truth is, it got to be really boring as all I could do is write variations of "mmmmph". silent 

Point is, keep in mind that the more freedom your imaginary scenario gives your partner to write about, the more you will both probably enjoy it.TickleHugKissBlush 



5.) Please remember DA is about art first.Speed Painting Emote 

Like most people who post, I joined DA in order to share my fetish related artwork (literary and visual) anonymously in a community that would enjoy it.

:painter:  
That means that if I have a lot of demands for my time, that I will be prioritizing writing and art before roleplaying.
:writer: 


It also means that I am much more likely to be interested in an artistic exchange than in RP-ing.

But most of all, it means that people who only comment on my work via a focus on trying to get me to engage in an RP, but without saying anything relevant to the work posted, will probably not be acknowledged.



6.) Please respect that I am married.Tie the Knot 
Commission: Spreading A Little Christmas Cheer by TicklishTouch

My hubby is on DA, and while he does not share my tickle-fetish he does time to time check in to see my work. If you wouldn't say whatever you plan to post on one of my DA pics/written works in front of him, then don't write it.

He and I have spoken openly about my RP-ing and he doesn't judge me for doing it, even saying that since I'm bi, he would be okay if I RP'd more erotically with a female, but not with a male. But because it matters to me, I will not be RP-ing beyond the tickling (that means "I will NOT RP sex" for those who need things spelled out) and deeply appreciate anyone who approaches me about RP-ing to respect that.



7.) Once guidelines are set....have fun being ruthless!Neko Emoji-19 (Evil laugh) [V1] 

So you think you can make me laugh? by TicklishAndInLove

Every RP requestor claims they will be ruthless. But if I had to admit who has in reality succeeded in managing to be respectful AND a dominate Ler via RP-ing over the internet Ebil Laugh (the true measure being making me giggle, blush or/and squeal out loud as I read their words and whose scenarios haunted my mind as I went to sleepMoe Moe Tokyo Plz ), there have only been two
(I am RP-ing with them right now...and I have to shoot them a wink here as they are wonderfully playful!Shouko-Blush (Baka to test) ). The main difference I've spied is that they are highly creative and descriptive:bademoticon: ...describing emotions, rooms, scenarios and putting as much time in the flirtation and swagger, (for example, describing that they are smirking while speaking as they tickle, instead of just listing an action). That descriptiveness makes all the difference in the world, and will for any partner you may have!:cheeruptickle: 



8.) I only RP with two people at any one time - This is about respecting YOU and your time!

Life is busy. Juggling responsibilities :bademoticon: with writing/art for DA is a challenge. I've learned that this means I can't keep up with writing for RP's all that much. Because I respect you and your time, I won't allow myself to juggle more than two people that I can reliably write for, and even then, I am often slow because of having to juggle work with everything.

If you are looking for someone who will RP with you right now, this very moment, I suggest going to www.TickleTheater.com and entering their virtual roleplaying room.




Anime Msn Emotion 2 I hope none of these points comes off as rude or snooty. Bunny Emoji-79 (Shy Blush) [V4] 

Kaori Fujimiya (Total Shyness) [V1] But given the steady rate of requests,
it just seemed like this topic needed to be written clearly somewhere.
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I love and appreciate you all!Bunny Emoji-77 (Melting) [V4] 

TicklishAndInLoveFlirtatious 

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maxmodd3r's avatar

I think that was highly respectful of you to write all these things down. You seem extremely likeable and respectful just looking at this. Your hubby is a very lucky guy.