RP Comfort Meme

May 9, 201717 min read

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Published: May 9, 2017

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RP Comfort Meme

_{(Meme originally by ElfSama with some additions by KiyokoAmaya )

A valuable meme for any role-player!

Come display your comfort levels so your role-play partners are aware of what they can do, and of what they should avoid! A healthy relationship between role-play partners is the key to a good time!

While this meme shows the basics, please remember to communicate with your role-play partners!
Tagged by no one! //gross laughs//}

▶ Key:

_{- Yes
  - No
  - Preferred Option
  - No opinion

▶ ROLE PLAY BASICS:
- RP Style
I am all right with:
   Lit/Para
   Script
I can do either or. But if you want slightly faster replies from me, I'd say Script.

- Locations
I am comfortable doing:
   Comment
   Chats
   Notes
   Forum
   Skype
   Google Docs
   Discord
Once I've rped with you for a while and feel more comfortable, then we can maybe move onto Google Docs. Generally, I like to discuss/plan and headcanon on Discord first.

- OOC/Headcanoning/RP Planning Methods
   Skype
Google Docs
   Discord
   Notes
For headcanoning and OOC I prefer Discord or Notes. For actual rping, I prefer Notes or Google Docs.

- Participants
I am comfortable with:
   One on one role plays.
   Up to three people.
   Up to four people.
   Five or more people!
   As big as possible!
I'm awful with group chat rps. I'm also super socially awkward and shy, so big groups intimidate me. They're usually too fast paced and it overwhelms me. //craiis// And I'm better at writing for 1-2 characters rather than a group usually.

- Post Length
I usually write about:
One or two sentences.
One or two paragraphs.
Two to five paragraphs.
More than five paragraphs.
A few pages worth.
I never write less than three sentences. My scripts are usually one paragraph, and para rps are one to three paragraphs on average. But my response depends on how much content my partner gives me, and I try to match their length (if possible OTL)

- I am comfortable role-playing with people who write:
One or two sentences.
One or two paragraphs.
Two to five paragraphs.
More than five paragraphs.
A few pages worth.
I really dislike one-liners, even if it's for script rps. Sorry. . . :'[ It's so hard to respond back to with so little content. But writing me a few pages worth . . . well . . . my partner is welcome to do it, but I won't be able to fart out the same length. And it will most likely take me 5ever to reply.

- Role-play Requests
I like getting requests from:
  Anyone and everyone at any time!
  When I ask for role-plays.
  From friends and acquaintances.
  From friends only.
I welcome all if we have any OCs that I think would get along <3 I'm just extremely picky with romance rps orz

- RP Speed
I usually reply:
  Within an hour
  Within the same day
  Within the same week
  Within the same month
  Longer than a month
  At random/variable times
I used to be able to fart out replies within an hour or so. Now that I have a full-time job. . . it's very difficult to maintain a 'schedule'. I do tryyyy my best to reply at least once a week. On good days, I can reply within the same day. However, I'll admit the worst case scenario would be longer than one week or something even a month. . . I also sometimes forget too, or the notes/messages get lost in my mountain of notes (I'm so sorry!). So don't feel afraid to send me a friendly reminder or check up on me.

- I expect my partner to reply:
Within an hour
Within the same day
Within the same week
Within the same month
Longer than a month
When they are able!
I probably sound like a hypocrite with all the red X's compared to the green check marks. Sorry! But I'd be happy with a response back anytime within the same month to be honest. The only problem is that the longer my partner takes to reply back, the more I forget about certain plot details, and what I initially wanted to write for my response.

- Corrections
I am comfortable getting corrections when:
I missed something in your/someone else's post
I missed something about your/someone else's character
/   It's realistic/factual
When it comes to spells, attack, stats, etc...
Grammar
/   Never
I'm a little iffy with this. . . I'm okay if it's related to the rp, but if it's about me/the way I write. . . just try to be nice about it or just don't bring it up, cause I'm weak and I know I suck already . . . //gross sob//.

▶ ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS:
** Important: Communication is the key to a real life relationship, it shouldn't be abandoned for a fictional one either! Be sure to talk to your partners when considering romance!

- Shipping
I am comfortable shipping my characters:
Never.
  Our character know each other deeply.
  Our character know each other deeply, and I know I can trust the role-player.
  At the first sign of flirting!
  Only if the role-player and I plan it.
  It depends on the character.
I prefer to ship OCs with people I somewhat know and trust won't ditch me. . . or if our OCs really get along in the romantic sense.

- If you want to ship with my characters
Talk to me about it from the start.
  Talk to me about it once our characters know each other.
Talk to me about it once they both have some feelings for each other.
Talk to me about it when they finally decide that want to go beyond hugging.
This also depends on whether I know you/how close we are LOL. Chances are a little higher if we're friends. I'm a little (more than) picky. . . but as long as our OCs are compatible and I like where we're going. . . then we got ourselves a ship. B)c Just don't ditch me right after //craiis//

- Speed
When shipping my characters, I like the romance to happen:
Swift as lightening!
  Fast, but not super fast.
Happens in about three months.
Slow and steady wins the race.
Slugs know what's up!
  My relationships know no speed. They happen if they happen.
This depends on the characters and their interactions really. So my preference of 'speed' can be different. Although if it takes too long. . . I might just start losing patience and interest . . . //ugly laughs//

- Smut
When my characters gets intimate, I prefer:
  To skip the act entirely.
  To write the build up, but skip the act.
To write the act only if it is very special, but otherwise skip it.
To write the act all the way through.
Smut? Heck yeeeah baby, bring it on! >:'D Although I tend to fast forward or skip smut with minor characters. But if my partner prefers to skip/black it out, I can respect that. Also, I'd prefer if my partner is 18+ if they're going to write smut with me LOL.;;;

- Roles during smut
I am fine with:
  Being strictly top
  Being strictly bottom
  Switching between top / bottom
I used to be fine with being strictly top, but as I got older. . . I became 'broken' LOL. I feel huge discomfort playing strictly top. However, I can accepting switching every now and then, just not primarily top.

- Romantic Artwork
When it comes to artwork depicting our relationship please:
  Do not post it at all without talking to me.
  Post it if it is cuddles and hugs.
  Post it if it is kisses.
  Post it if it is much more.
  Post it all if it depicts sexual acts!
  Draw what you like, but don't post it anywhere!
Baby you can draw whatever you want and post or don't post it anywhere you want. Although I would LOOOOVEE it if my partner showed me //gross sob// _{cause I'm nosy but also want to squeal over the artsu}

▶ DRAMATICS:
** Important: Always be sure to communicate with your partner individually if you think you are about to go outside their comfort zones even just the slightest bit!!

- Violence
When it comes to violent situations, I am comfortable with:
No violence at all!
  I'm fine with verbal arguments!
  Some violence, like a paper cut, or an accidental elbow to the face.
  Mild violence, such as punching, kicking, hair pulling.
  Violence, such as stabbings.
  Beyond violence, such as torture and more.
Whatever happens in the rp happens. Although I'll admit I'm not that great with fighting-action scenes, but I'm not opposed to some torturing if the situation calls for it. I just don't write explicit 'gore' stuff is all, lol.

- If you are going to do something violent, please:
  Don't do it at all.
  Talk to me about it first.
  Surprise me!
  Just throw it at me.. literally, get it
If the rp has violence/action as one of the themes, then go for it. But if it's uncalled for, I'd like to know first. LOL;;

- Dramatic Artwork
  Do not post any dramatic scenes that that happened between our characters.
  Talk to me about it before posting!
  Post what you like!
//Grabby handsss// show meee everything of the baess ~ <3

▶ OTHER:
- General Artwork
I am fine with art being done of my characters:
  If it's IC.
  If you don't know me/barely know me.
  If you are my friend.
  If you ask me first
  Only if it's a finished/polished piece
I accept all kinds of wonderful artsu from anyone (as long as you're not ripping off one of my OCs' designs for your own OCs) . You guys are amaaazing if you draw artsu of my OCs.

- Crack
When it comes to crack, I'm okay with:
Crack in general.
Crack-shipping.
Bring it onnnn, haha~}